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Are you having a hard time picking out your damas? Here’s an idea for you: Would you consider making your court all guys? This is definitely not traditional, but sometimes you gotta dare to be different!

You’ll get more attention on you as the only girl. Guys are easier to dress and to coordinate. It’s so easy to take them all for a tuxedo fitting. You can dress your main chambelán all in white, while the other chambelanes wear black tuxes.

Your dance routines can be completely different. Part of the dance routine can be that the guys form a line and each one walks up to you to hand you a rose. Or, do a candle-lighting ceremony, where each one holds a candle that you light up as you walk by with a candle of your own. They can also stand in formation while they each wait to dance with you.

This should also make it easier to ask your crush to be your main chambelán, if that's what you really want. I didn’t have the guts to ask the guy who I had a crush on. To my surprise, I later found out that the guy I did ask to be my main chambelán (he was really cute!) had a crush on ME — who knew!?! Days later, he told me about his feelings when he extended his hand to me for the dance. He was looking at me as if he had seen me for the first time. Even though he was shy, he was a very sweet guy.

What about you? Have any chambelán stories to melt our hearts?

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