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When planning an outdoor quince, you take a chance on the weather. But I think it's worth it! (Have a plan B in case of rain, of course.) Before I go into the fun of planning a quince at a beach or in your backyard, we have to go over the practical stuff. There are five things I always tell quince girls to remember if they're planning an outdoor party:
1. Alert your guests if they have to walk on grass or rough terrain. You want to make sure the women aren't wearing high heels if that's the case!
2. Think of the elderly relatives. They can't sit out in the sun or heat for too long, so make sure there are shady spots or indoor places they can rest.
3. Beware of bugs. To keep them away, set up citronella candles or bug-repellent lanterns (the company OFF! makes them).
4. Make sure there is appropriate room and electrical outlets for DJs and bands to set up outside.
5. Ask the local authorities about noise restrictions or about any permits that might be required if you're in a public place like a park. It would be a bummer to get a fine!
If you're having your quince at the beach...
I can't resist a beach-themed quince that's actually at the beach! Although a beach is an unusual place for a quinceañera, it's really easy to put together and it can be inexpensive because it's so casual. Of course, just because the mood is casual doesn't mean you can't dress up like a princess. There's nothing like running around in the sand all dressed up. After all, it is YOUR day.
If you start the party in early afternoon and carry through the night, you'll have the benefit of the sunset — SO HOT! You can do a barbecue and eat in front of a bonfire, not to mention dance in the sand. It's so much fun. Keep it simple: Serve hot dogs and hamburgers, cool tropical drinks, salads with cucumber, and pineapples. You can set it up like a buffet and create a "gazebo" (a tiny roof supported by two or four columns) for the cake, so it won't melt in the sun.
To get more ideas for decorating and planning a beach-themed quince, check out MisQuinceMag.com's guide here. You can also take this quiz to see if a beach-themed quince fits your personality.
Click READ MORE to see my tips for having a quince in the backyard.
The great thing about
masquerade balls is that you can plan them for any season. They can be wild,
casual, or formal. The only requirement is that you and your guests wear masks!
For the sake of this conversation, let's make it formal, elegant, and romantic,
like Phantom of the Opera! If you don't know it, this is a very famous musical
that has a masquerade ball scene.
For this theme, think Venice in the 19th century. First, pick the colors purple, green, and gold, or any related shades, like burgundy, royal blue, and mustard. On your invitation, ask everyone to wear dressy outfits in those colors. (The guys can wear black slacks with a shirt or tie in any of those colors.) Challenge the guests to bring a unique mask. Give a prize for the best decorated one! So everyone can get in the spirit, be sure to provide fun accessories like masks, hats, feathers, feather boas, gloves, capes, and canes. You can pick these up from a party store.
You want to have bright lights at the entrance of your party, maybe even a spotlight to feature some of the outfits. Inside lights should be dim. Decorate the area with masks, white holiday lights, and candles everywhere. Put candelabra on the tables and thick drapes on the windows.
The presentation dances can be classical songs from Phantom of the Opera (click READ MORE to see a suggested playlist). The party can be divided in two parts. The first half of the night can be formal. Play mellow music for the first couple of hours during the dinner, like instrumentals on a cello, harp, or violin. The second half can be lively, more casual, and fun.
If you have a photo of yourself at a masquerade ball, send it to me! I may post it on my blog.
You may have already read MisQuinceMag.com's tips for shopping for unforgettable invitations here. Or maybe you saw my earlier blog post about how to word your quinceañera invitations. Many girls still had questions for me about ordering and sending their invitations, so here I am with the answers!
1. Should the invitation be in Spanish, English, or both?
The invitation should be in the language of the country where the party is taking place. So, most quinceañera invitations you see in the U.S. will be in English. However, if you have relatives who don't understand English very well, it's nice to write translations for them.
2. Is it cool to do electronic invitations to save paper and postage, or does that leave a bad impression?
A quinceañera is a once-in-a-lifetime event, so put the effort into printed invitations. If you want to save money, you can print your invitations from a home computer.
3. When should I order my invitations?
I recommend ordering them about four to six months before your party, or as soon as you know your date, time, and location. Don't forget to order 20 to 30 extra invitations in case some get messed up in the addressing process or for last-minute guests. You'll also want to save a couple for your keepsake album. It's cheaper to order in bulk, rather than having to reorder a few invitations later.
4. What do I write inside the invitation?
Check out this earlier blog post I wrote, where I give you an example you can copy for your invitations.
5. Does the invitation come from me or my parents? What if my parents are separated?
I mentioned this in my last blog post about invitation wording. It should come from whoever is paying for the party. I have advice on dealing with those tricky family situations here.
I'm answering three more questions for you ... click READ MORE to see them!
Not sure
what to write inside your quinceañera invitations? First, decide how formal you
want the words to be. Who is paying for or organizing your quinceañera? Are your
parents paying for everything together? If only one parent is paying, then he
or she should be the one inviting. Follow this example:
Mr. & Mrs. Manuel Lopez (or Mrs. Lucia Lopez)
Request the honor of your presence at
The quinceañera of their (or his/her) daughter,
Jennifer Griselda Lopez-Macias
Saturday, the twentieth of October
Two thousand and nine
Two o'clock in the afternoon
Sacred Heart Church
Jersey City, New Jersey
Reception to follow.
If everyone in the family is contributing, then consider starting with the family name. (Click READ MORE to see the example.)
If you are planning your quinceañera on a budget, cut costs by making your own decorations. With these simple and inexpensive ideas, you can start by making your own centerpieces for the tables. You'll find the needed supplies at most dollars stores across the country.
For the first four arrangements, buy glass bowls in various shapes and sizes from the dollar store.
Arrangement #1
Fill the bowls halfway with clear water and add floating tea light candles, also from the dollar store. You can color the water with artificial coloring to match your theme.
Arrangement #2
Fill the bowls halfway with clear water and add roses, carnations, or daisies to float in them.
Arrangement #3
Fill the bowls halfway with sand and place tea lights on the sand. Add other accessories to highlight a theme, like seashells or river stones.
Arrangement #4
If you have a lemon or orange tree in your backyard, USE IT, GIRL! Fill the bowls with lemons or oranges and work the theme around that, especially if you're having a summer quinceañera.
I have three more ideas using different supplies. Keep reading!
I'm going to tell you how special quinces in El Salvador are, but first I have to say that salvadoreñas are BEAUTIFUL! One of my favorite supermodels of all time is salvadoreña Christie Turlington (her mom is from El Salvador). Also, my friend, reporter Elizabeth Espinosa from KTLA Channel 5 in Los Angeles, is another gorgeous and talented salvadoreña. Elizabeth is actually the one who inspired me to write a post about la Fiesta Rosa.
Quinceañeras in El Salvador are called "Fiesta Rosa," or "rose party." The reason for the name is obvious. Everything is pink: pink dress, pink hat, pink gloves, pink bouquet, pink shoes, and pink decorations. In some cultures, rosa or rosado signifies innocence and girlhood.
El Salvador is a very Catholic culture, so that is why to start off the Fiesta
Rosa, there is a traditional Thanksgiving mass, when family members present the
quinceañera with gifts. A lot of Fiestas Rosas are celebrated in August, when
salvadoreños also honor the patron saint of El Salvador, named El Salvador del Mundo.
August 6 is the national day of celebration, but the parties and parades last during the whole first week of August — which is actually happening right now, as I'm blogging!
La Fiesta Rosa is a big feast, usually prepared by the family and consisting of typical Salvadorean dishes, like casamiento, which is a mixture of rice and beans, and pupusas, which is cornmeal stuffed with cheese, refried beans, and chicharrón (fried pork fat).
Pupusas are one of the most important typical dishes of El Salvador and can't be missed at the Fiesta Rosa. Similar to the Venezuelan arepas, the pupusa is handmade tortilla made of masa de maíz, a thick corn dough frequently used in Latin American cuisine. The pupusa is usually stuffed with either queso (cheese), refried beans (frijoles refritos), fried pork rind (chicharrón), and squash (ayote). Here's a recipe if you want to add a piece of El Salvador to your own quince, or Fiesta Rosa!
Click READ MORE to get the recipe!
12 Months Before:
TEETH
Everyone should go to the dentist at least twice a year for cleaning
and checkups. Even if this isn’t possible for you, start taking care of
your teeth by brushing at least twice a day and flossing daily. If you
have a choice, whitening toothpaste is the best, but baking soda can
also help remove stains. Brush with paste, and then brush again after
dipping your damp toothbrush into the baking soda.
6 Months Before:
HAIR
Focus on getting your pelo healthy. If your hair is
damaged, avoid washing it every day so you don’t dry out the natural
moisture. Try not to use heat-styling tools, like blow-dryers and flat
irons, every day. If you must, make sure you protect your hair with
leave-in conditioner. Conditioners are so important for keeping hair
strong and preventing split ends and flyaways.
3 Months Before:
EYEBROWS
If you don’t trim your cejas yet, I recommend going to a professional
the first time, before you start plucking yourself. She will shape them
for you using wax or tweezers so they match your facial structure and
aren’t too thin. Afterward, you can maintain them on your own with a
good pair of tweezers. The best brand for brow upkeep is Anastasia
Beverly Hills, sold at sephora.com.
A pair of Anastasia tweezers will cost you $28, but it’s a good
investment. If you’re on a tight budget, the cheaper drugstore tweezers
will still get the job done!
1 Month Before:
SKIN
For the next four weeks, exfoliate and moisturize.
Treat yourself to a weekly all-natural, at-home facial. You can buy
great scrubs at Bath & Body Works or the drugstore. Or, make your
own scrub by mixing some oatmeal and honey together. Paste it on your
face and let it dry for a bit. Right before it dries completely, gently
rub it on your skin so it removes dry, dead skin cells. Rinse and apply
your regular facial moisturizer. Using moisturizer with SPF for sun
protection is something you’ll thank me for later — it helps prevent
the sun damage that causes wrinkles later in life.
Use a loofah sponge or mesh sponge with liquid soap to scrub your body
from neck to toe in the shower. When you come out of the shower,
remember to moisturize with lotion.
Leer en español
Los quince años were a tough age for me because I used to fight a lot
with my mom. Eventually, I grew really close to her — it just took a
lot of learning along the way. If I could go back in time and tell my
15-year-old self 15 important things, I’d say this:
- We cannot accomplish anything by ourselves. We all need each other. Being part of a team is very rewarding. Your family is your team.
- Make sure you do something you LOVE every day. Otherwise, you’ll get bored.
- Don’t miss out on the gifts of nature. Do stop and smell the roses, listen to the birds, make friends with the butterflies, sing and dance.
- Laugh at yourself from time to time. If others laugh at you, don’t fret — it happens to all of us. Remember those famous words from Eleanor Roosevelt: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
- Don’t be afraid to try something new. There is so much to be discovered in life as long as you are not harming yourself (like smoking — which gives you yellow teeth, bad breath, wrinkly skin ... yuck!) or doing anything illegal.
I love everything about quinceañeras. I believe a lot of good can
come out of a family getting together to celebrate a girl’s
transformation into adulthood. This week, I wanted to share 15 other
reasons why quinces are so special! Here’s what I love about them...
- I love that 15 means you are ready to learn how to read a bill,
write a check, make arroz con frijoles — all of those grown-up
responsibilities.
- I love when you wear Chuck Taylors for the changing-of-the-shoe
ceremony, like the girl in this picture! (We're on the KTLA morning
show here.)
- I love when you dress your perrito in a tuxedo and include him in la fiesta (if he is well behaved!).
- I love when you donate your dress to charity for other chicas who cannot afford to have a quinceañera.
- I love when you find creative ways to make a grand entrance. You can find a local antique car collectors’ club and ask if they would drive you and your court to the party. They might do it for free or for a minimal fee. You might even get the fire department to give you a ride in their red engine, if you ask!
- I love when you give your last doll to your mom or your little sister, instead of receiving it.
- I love when you set up a wishing well at the entrance of the reception, with a note pad where guests can write you a message
- I love when your mom and dad get to tell a story about when they were 15, or when they dance to their favorite songs from way back then.
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